Don’t Marry a Career Woman?
September 1, 2006 by Marc Lamont Hill

Forbes.com is just the latest media outlet to say working women have terrible marriages. Will this myth ever die?
Gasp! I Married a Career Woman
By Caryl Rivers and Rosalind Barnett
We have a recurring nightmare. We’re standing on a mountaintop, being attacked by a huge, winged chimera with an enormous head and a mouth that keeps chanting, “Working women are miserable. Their marriages are terrible. Their husbands are miserable. Their children are wrecks.”
We slice off the beast’s head with a sharp sword. Instantly 20 more heads appear to take its place, each chanting, “Working women are miserable, their marriages are terrible ….”
For the media, it is the story that simply will not die. Are you as bored with it as we are?
The newest chimera’s head comes from Forbes.com, in the form of an article last week by editor Michael Noer with a headline, “Don’t Marry Career Women” and subtitled “How do women, careers and marriage mix? Not well, say social scientists.” The article was accompanied by a slide show purporting to show the “social science” on which the piece was based.
The way this story played out tells us a lot about the workings of today’s media, the Internet and the 24-hour continuous news cycle. It may also herald a major new media power source: Femalebloggers Inc.
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4 Comments
1. ting wrote:
I think that article was just created to generate buzz for Forbes.
September 1, 2006 @ 9:17 am2. RAD wrote:
True. My co-worker was just saying yesterday that one of the key factors keeping his marriage together is the mortgage: knowing he can’t pay that sh*t by himself!
September 1, 2006 @ 12:51 pm3. RWS wrote:
Truth is that compatibility doesn’t fit neatly into overbroad generations. Certain types of men aren’t wired for succesful marriages with career women. And vice versa, some career women aren’t wired for successful marriages with men. Some professional men or over achievers can’t handle being with an equal. Some blue collar men can’t handle being with a female breadwinner.
Some career women are too career-focused to provide the kind of time love and tenderness some men desire. And some men are too damn needy. Vice versa for professional men. Plus, some professional men are looking for a side-kick or a trophy instead of a peer, confidant, advisor, and partner.
Its about what you’re looking for as compared to what you’re looking at.
And, um…, that L word figures in there somewhere too.
September 1, 2006 @ 5:03 pm4. Onyx wrote:
I meant to say male-centered. This thing should have spell check! lol
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