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		<title>By: Cheryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 20:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The lecture series of Prof. Mwalimu Baruti  will lend itself perfectly to this topic! Prof. Baruti is known for his books &quot;The Sex Imperative&quot; &amp; &quot;The Homosexuality &amp; the Effeminization of the Afrikan Male&quot;.....he will be in Phila. on Aug.22-09 from 1p-3p at the Church of the Advocate!  You can check him out on youtube as well! And then my girl Dr. Frances Welsing whom I&#039;ve had the pleasure of meeting &amp; attending several of her lectures at Howard...they give great insight into this touchy dynamic that few fear to tread.....All we seem to end up being is&#039; laboratory rats&#039; in this society! Let&#039;s wake up folks &quot; knowledge is a form of self- defense&quot;....we&#039;ve walked in the valley of ignorance for too long!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The lecture series of Prof. Mwalimu Baruti  will lend itself perfectly to this topic! Prof. Baruti is known for his books &#8220;The Sex Imperative&#8221; &amp; &#8220;The Homosexuality &amp; the Effeminization of the Afrikan Male&#8221;&#8230;..he will be in Phila. on Aug.22-09 from 1p-3p at the Church of the Advocate!  You can check him out on youtube as well! And then my girl Dr. Frances Welsing whom I&#8217;ve had the pleasure of meeting &amp; attending several of her lectures at Howard&#8230;they give great insight into this touchy dynamic that few fear to tread&#8230;..All we seem to end up being is&#8217; laboratory rats&#8217; in this society! Let&#8217;s wake up folks &#8221; knowledge is a form of self- defense&#8221;&#8230;.we&#8217;ve walked in the valley of ignorance for too long!</p>
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		<title>By: Gman6501</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gman6501</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 19:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fantastic article. I thought I was the only person who felt this way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic article. I thought I was the only person who felt this way.</p>
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		<title>By: X-ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>X-ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 15:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Post Dr. Hill. I hear that silly ass phrase on campus all the time here at Virginia State Univ.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Post Dr. Hill. I hear that silly ass phrase on campus all the time here at Virginia State Univ.</p>
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		<title>By: DCI74</title>
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		<dc:creator>DCI74</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 23:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jay Smooth put out a really accurate and funny video about this topic last year. I&#039;m still surprised that the term and the overall mentality behind it has grown legs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay Smooth put out a really accurate and funny video about this topic last year. I&#8217;m still surprised that the term and the overall mentality behind it has grown legs.</p>
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		<title>By: zak</title>
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		<dc:creator>zak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 18:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Believe me, Deac. I know all that. No disrespect. I was being stereotypical on purpose. I&#039;m going after the Jews and their devil horns, and the Asian women with sideways vaginas next.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe me, Deac. I know all that. No disrespect. I was being stereotypical on purpose. I&#8217;m going after the Jews and their devil horns, and the Asian women with sideways vaginas next.</p>
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		<title>By: DCI74</title>
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		<dc:creator>DCI74</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 15:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Marc for speaking on this, it has been driving me crazy for years now every single time I hear the kids I’ve worked with say it over and over again. Its akin to the pimple-faced preteen boys who giggle every time they hear or say the word “pencil” because its similar to the word “penis” and just highlights how incredibly juvenile the whole “no homo/pause” mentality has become. It’s so unnecessary to draw attention to statements or words that have absolutely no sexual connotation attached by quantifying them with a pause or no homo. And I completely agree that stupid behavior like this just further marginalizes the LGBTQ community by implying that sexual orientation is defined by words not actions. To me anyone who embraces this mentality is in some level extremely insecure and somewhat uncomfortable with not only their sexuality but the sexuality of others. If you’re straight and secure why on earth are would a person be so obsessed with sexuality that they would need to say this all the time? It also says a lot about their subconscious state of mind because of all the LGBTQ people I know personally I have never ever heard any of them say “no hetero.” Bottom line, if you are truly secure you don’t have to do anything to prove your security to others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Marc for speaking on this, it has been driving me crazy for years now every single time I hear the kids I’ve worked with say it over and over again. Its akin to the pimple-faced preteen boys who giggle every time they hear or say the word “pencil” because its similar to the word “penis” and just highlights how incredibly juvenile the whole “no homo/pause” mentality has become. It’s so unnecessary to draw attention to statements or words that have absolutely no sexual connotation attached by quantifying them with a pause or no homo. And I completely agree that stupid behavior like this just further marginalizes the LGBTQ community by implying that sexual orientation is defined by words not actions. To me anyone who embraces this mentality is in some level extremely insecure and somewhat uncomfortable with not only their sexuality but the sexuality of others. If you’re straight and secure why on earth are would a person be so obsessed with sexuality that they would need to say this all the time? It also says a lot about their subconscious state of mind because of all the LGBTQ people I know personally I have never ever heard any of them say “no hetero.” Bottom line, if you are truly secure you don’t have to do anything to prove your security to others.</p>
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		<title>By: Deacon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deacon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 06:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As stereotypical  as Zak&#039;s statement is:

 &quot;Funny is that gay men and hip-hoppering negros have a lot in common. They like expensive clothes, shiny stuff, and love getting the fruitiest drinks in the club.&quot;

I have a an idea of what he was trying to say, as far as the &quot;no homo&quot; preface being used by straight men if they have to to say it to make the point that their not gay then they need to find another way of getting their point across The irony is that the one&#039;s going around saying it are the same ones wearing their pant below their ass showing the world their dirty drawz, if that&#039;s not gay then I don&#039;t know what is, why would a straight guy want to walk around showing his ass. Is it me or are staright guys more fixated on what gays do sexually than us gay men are.

There&#039;s more to gay men than being fashionable, drinking fruity drinks, snapping fingers, and going to Patti LaBelle concerts, some of us actully play ball, ride bikes, drink beer and don&#039;t give a damn about fashion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As stereotypical  as Zak&#8217;s statement is:</p>
<p> &#8220;Funny is that gay men and hip-hoppering negros have a lot in common. They like expensive clothes, shiny stuff, and love getting the fruitiest drinks in the club.&#8221;</p>
<p>I have a an idea of what he was trying to say, as far as the &#8220;no homo&#8221; preface being used by straight men if they have to to say it to make the point that their not gay then they need to find another way of getting their point across The irony is that the one&#8217;s going around saying it are the same ones wearing their pant below their ass showing the world their dirty drawz, if that&#8217;s not gay then I don&#8217;t know what is, why would a straight guy want to walk around showing his ass. Is it me or are staright guys more fixated on what gays do sexually than us gay men are.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more to gay men than being fashionable, drinking fruity drinks, snapping fingers, and going to Patti LaBelle concerts, some of us actully play ball, ride bikes, drink beer and don&#8217;t give a damn about fashion.</p>
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		<title>By: illestchamp (CHAMP-ION)</title>
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		<dc:creator>illestchamp (CHAMP-ION)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 23:31:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s admirable you touched on this urban slang; topic often and ignorantly used. My belief is validation or confirmation on such mindless comments stated by &quot;self&quot; is ignorance of one&#039;s &quot;ego&quot;. 

Props to you bruah; if this act was to be consistant, many (not all of course) would have to chant this phrase while walking with the new &quot;trend&quot; of the tight jeans and daily muffin top display... Yet, that again would not help. My point is that contradictory is throughout and it&#039;s even more unfortunate how so many of my brothas are contradicting themselves by these words/seeds spoken... especially when stated in front of our children. 

Continue sharing greatness man. 100.

Champ-ion (google me; illestchamp)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s admirable you touched on this urban slang; topic often and ignorantly used. My belief is validation or confirmation on such mindless comments stated by &#8220;self&#8221; is ignorance of one&#8217;s &#8220;ego&#8221;. </p>
<p>Props to you bruah; if this act was to be consistant, many (not all of course) would have to chant this phrase while walking with the new &#8220;trend&#8221; of the tight jeans and daily muffin top display&#8230; Yet, that again would not help. My point is that contradictory is throughout and it&#8217;s even more unfortunate how so many of my brothas are contradicting themselves by these words/seeds spoken&#8230; especially when stated in front of our children. </p>
<p>Continue sharing greatness man. 100.</p>
<p>Champ-ion (google me; illestchamp)</p>
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		<title>By: EminemsRevenge</title>
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		<dc:creator>EminemsRevenge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 18:47:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just read about your grandmother on Twitter...condolences bro...to paraphrase Shelley:

Peace, peace! he is not dead, she doth not sleep-
She hath awakened from the dream of life-
&#039;Tis we, who, lost in the stormy visions keep
With phantoms an unprofitable strife,
And in mad trance strike with our spirit&#039;s knife
Invulnerable nothings.-We decay
Like corpses in a charnel; fear and grief
Convulse us and consume us day by day,
And cold hopes swarm like worms within our living clay.
The One remains, the many change and pass;
Heaven&#039;s light forever shines, Earth&#039;s shadows fly;
Life, like a dome of many coloured glass,
Stains the white radiance of Eternity,
Until Death tramples it to fragments.-Die,
If thou wouldst be with that which thou dost seek!
Follow where all is fled!-Rome&#039;s azure sky,
Flowers, ruins, statues, music, words are weak
The glory they transfuse with fitting words to speak.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just read about your grandmother on Twitter&#8230;condolences bro&#8230;to paraphrase Shelley:</p>
<p>Peace, peace! he is not dead, she doth not sleep-<br />
She hath awakened from the dream of life-<br />
&#8216;Tis we, who, lost in the stormy visions keep<br />
With phantoms an unprofitable strife,<br />
And in mad trance strike with our spirit&#8217;s knife<br />
Invulnerable nothings.-We decay<br />
Like corpses in a charnel; fear and grief<br />
Convulse us and consume us day by day,<br />
And cold hopes swarm like worms within our living clay.<br />
The One remains, the many change and pass;<br />
Heaven&#8217;s light forever shines, Earth&#8217;s shadows fly;<br />
Life, like a dome of many coloured glass,<br />
Stains the white radiance of Eternity,<br />
Until Death tramples it to fragments.-Die,<br />
If thou wouldst be with that which thou dost seek!<br />
Follow where all is fled!-Rome&#8217;s azure sky,<br />
Flowers, ruins, statues, music, words are weak<br />
The glory they transfuse with fitting words to speak.</p>
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		<title>By: EminemsRevenge</title>
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		<dc:creator>EminemsRevenge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 03:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I AM the THE Ultimate FAG magnet...WHY completely escapes ME...Beyonce could be sitting opposite ME on the subway...no one on HER side of the train...and Jay-Z would RUN towards ME and fag the F out...

Back in *da* DAY...OG&#039;s sticking up mom &amp; pops stores INSTEAD of FDIC insured banks--kidnapping and RAPING 15-year-old GIRLS in the name of &quot;pimpin&#039;&quot;---YO Snoop...WE got some 1-on-1&#039;ing to DO...motherfaggot</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I AM the THE Ultimate FAG magnet&#8230;WHY completely escapes ME&#8230;Beyonce could be sitting opposite ME on the subway&#8230;no one on HER side of the train&#8230;and Jay-Z would RUN towards ME and fag the F out&#8230;</p>
<p>Back in *da* DAY&#8230;OG&#8217;s sticking up mom &amp; pops stores INSTEAD of FDIC insured banks&#8211;kidnapping and RAPING 15-year-old GIRLS in the name of &#8220;pimpin&#8217;&#8221;&#8212;YO Snoop&#8230;WE got some 1-on-1&#8242;ing to DO&#8230;motherfaggot</p>
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