1. anita wrote:

I love this picture! I love that he loves his wife.

2. Hal wrote:

I am SO HYPED!

3. Ann wrote:

Nice pic but I hated Michelle’s dress last night….

And you know what….You can tell by their consistent displays of affection that Obama loves him some MICHELLE!!!!!

4. Marc Lamont Hill wrote:

i wasn’t gonna say anything, lest i be called a hater. but that dress was UGLY…

5. Ann wrote:

I wasnt going to say anything either and ruin the moment but after being such a trend setter in past appearances she faultered last night…that big blast of red in the middle just wasnt working for me…at first I thought her dress was on fire…

6. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

Ann YES they were so goo goo gaw gaw eyed last night…i loved it. i know she broke him off something proper when they got home…shit, he deserved it!

i thought they all looked lovely, Barack looked so refreshed…i was getting worried for a minute, because he looked exausted when he was in florida the other day…

i’m with you Hal, i’m hyper than a muthaf**ka right now!

7. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

man i wasn’t even thinkin’ bout that lady’s dress….i was too busy screaming my throat away and crying…i couldn’t see shit…

8. Ann wrote:

I thought I would cry but I didnt….probably because I have had so much anxiety built up that I hadn’t slept in almost 3 days…

9. radio raheem wrote:

the dress has to be cute for you to be a hater! and that dress should not have happened! the earrings either. obama stays fly and was wrong for not telling her…

still, they are my favorite. i will never forget the picture with them giving each other a pound. makes me smile…

10. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

to me, the whole night out shined her dress and earrings…

plus i think little sasha’s dress made up for her mommy’s…

11. Piscean Princess wrote:

I can hardly contain myself.

12. anita wrote:

She’s a trend setter. Everyone will own that dress in the future My gays liked it, so I know it was fresh…

13. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

lmao @ anita! that was cute..

14. Lisa wrote:

I could barely see to watch either. It was the most special night ever.

15. Mrs. Rivers wrote:

now THAT’s Black Love!

16. SoBe wrote:

I love this photo and I love them! I am so proud to be a voter and so proud of my new First Family, the Obamas! In the words of one soulful Jill Scott I am “bea-ming all the way, down 3rd.” It’s just the way he loves her!!!!!!

17. Z wrote:

@15- That’s what I said last night when I saw them! Just when I was about to give up on Black love.. (kidding, I won’t give up on my brothers)

18. Blaxx wrote:

Why y’all always gotta joke about giving up on the brothas? It hurts y’know

19. natural nubian wrote:

blaxx, why yall gotta “joke” about upgrading on us sistas, chasin’ dem white & asian girls? that hurts.

20. Clifton Harrison wrote:

That’s beautiful….

21. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

it’s some dope ass brothas out here trust me…sometimes we sistas overlook them…and sometimes these brothas overlook theselves….and we ourselves….

if that makes any sense. . .

22. gigi wrote:

Michelle and the girls looked absolutely beautiful. Marc, disliking the dress doesn’t make you a hater. However, that comment could be classified as catty. MEEEOOWW! LMAO

23. Blaxx wrote:

blaxx, why yall gotta “joke” about upgrading on us sistas, chasin’ dem white & asian girls? that hurts.

Comment by natural nubian — November 5, 2008 @ 1:27 pm

You can’t upgrade a sista. End of discussion.

I’ve never chased a white girl in my life but I’ve never turned away a sexy one.

You got me on the asian girls tho, I’ve gone after a few in my day.

At the end of the day, I don’t discriminate. A woman can be black, white, yellow, brown or purple. If she makes me happy, accepts who I am and appreciates what I bring to the table, she can play on my team.

24. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

what about when she’s black and asian?

let’s just say: best of both worlds. end of discussion…

man, we all black at the end of the day…period.

25. gigi wrote:

Actually, we aren’t all black at the end of the day.

26. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

well i feel like we are…

27. gigi wrote:

I understand we are all entitled to our feelings.

28. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

i understand where you’re coming from gigi, but my statement is much deeper than the one sentence that you’ve read…

do i feel like diggin’ deep into race today? nope…
maybe tomarrow.

29. Blaxx wrote:

Funny you two say that because the title of the blog entry I’m currently writing is “Everybody wanna be black until the police show up”.

And WYLTK, when she’s black and asian there are a lot of variables. If she’s anything like you tho…she better watch out, Blaxx is coming for her.

30. gigi wrote:

It’s cool. No argument!

31. gigi wrote:

The Barbershop is poppin’ today.

32. Blaxx wrote:

Yeah and y’know what, for the first time in a long time there is a lot of discussion and debate going on and it’s all positive and constructive. Nobody’s attacking anyone, no one is talkin out the side of they mouth, everybody’s just expressing their opinion. I love it, the olden days are back.

33. DCI74 wrote:

Cosign #31 Blaxx

34. Piscean Princess wrote:

#31……COSIGN!!!! It’s Black Love all up in here.

35. Tanya wrote:

GOD I love these two!!!

36. Tanya wrote:

(that dress was way wrong though!)

37. Tanya wrote:

This picture right here is going to make a whole lot of black couples run to the alter!

Gotta love it!!!

38. Blaxx wrote:

I gotta find some more pictures of that dress because I don’t recall anything wrong with it when I was watching last night.

39. Logic wrote:

“Nobody’s attacking anyone, no one is talkin out the side of they mouth,” …where’s Tanya? LOL!

Its a beautiful thang, its a beautiful thang.

The “good” brothers are too geeky for ya’ll. They always gotta have some “edge” to ‘em for ya’ll to be interested.

40. Z wrote:

I thought she looked classic. The entire family looked beautiful. I have to say her flat iron is always on point! HA!

41. Z wrote:

Logic,
If by geeky you mean intelligent, well-versed and romantic and respectful…Please point me in the direction of a geeky brother…

42. Tanya wrote:

Z,

YES, ceramic flat irons are GOD’s gift!!!

43. Blaxx wrote:

I consider myself to be a nerd, a big time nerd but I still got that edge to me. I mean there is a huge divide between having street smarts and running the streets. I know a lot of young black men as smart and maybe even smarter than me with more than enough talent and gifts to be anything they wanted but the lure of the street was too much for them and they are wasting their lives in a cell or worse. Then there are those like myself who know the time and place for everything. There is a time to fight, there is also a time to squash it and walk away. There is a time to do some dirt, but there’s a time when you just gotta sit this one out.

44. Blaxx wrote:

YES, ceramic flat irons are GOD’s gift!!!

Comment by Tanya — November 5, 2008 @ 3:15 pm

See what I mean about not being able to upgrade a black woman

45. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

Logic for the record i love geeks…i’m a geek myself.
who ever said geeks can’t be sexy, funny, edgy, etc???

Blaxx you better watch out there now…you know i have that caribbean spice right???

46. Logic wrote:

I agree 100% Blaxx! I’m the same way. But even then ladies always want you to “justify your thug.” I shouldn’t generalize.

If you ever said the phrase “he’s too nice” then you are complicit.

47. Uhura!, MBA wrote:

What is it with Black American Women and being attracted for hooligans?

48. lovestrong20 wrote:

@#40-
I’m with you, Z…where are they? Because clearly they aren’t in VA!

49. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

agreed Blaxx, ain’t nothing like having a silky ceramic wrap, and then getting into a steamy shower and coming out with a kinky curly fro…if brothas can’t see the beauty in that, then they should just, well, shoot themselves…

Logic, i actually love nice guys…but he has to know when to smack a nigga when need be…hence the word WHEN..jmo

50. Blaxx wrote:

agreed Blaxx, ain’t nothing like having a silky ceramic wrap, and then getting into a steamy shower and coming out with a kinky curly fro…if brothas can’t see the beauty in that, then they should just, well, shoot themselves…

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! We have our line of the day. I’ve only ever had 1 girl use the phrase “He’s too nice” when talking about me. And guess what, she was white. And she determined I was too nice after knowing me for about…ummmm…20 minutes. I love first impressions LOL

51. Logic wrote:

I can dig it!

52. timaree wrote:

best week ever!!!!! woot!

53. natural nubian wrote:

“But even then ladies always want you to justify your thug.”

logic, i’m stealing this from you! very funny but in some circumstances, sadly true.

54. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

what about when a woman is too nice? i think i’m too nice when it comes to brothas…and i also think i’m instantly stereotyped by men too…i think men assume how i am just by my physical appearance…shit y’all never heard of a sexy NERD???

i think being a cute geek is intimidating for men…

matter of fact, i think a woman with a little bit of EVERYTHING is even more intimidating!

yeah i went fuckin’ there. . .

55. Blaxx wrote:

I can’t think of a time when I’ve been intimidated by a woman, except for the gangsta girls in high school LOL.

I sometimes think my girlfriend is too nice. She checks with me about everything before she makes a decision. I love the fact she’s involving me in her life but she never really knows what she wants before she checks with me.

56. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

see that’s what i mean about a little bit of everything, cause i ain’t checkin’ wit shit…i’m only checkin’ for a pulse, if you alive then you cool! LOL

i think men just don’t know how to handle the lil bit of everything factor…i think they sometimes think it’s too good to be true…i guess

57. Logic wrote:

I love nice women. I think that guys assume certain things about sexy women. The biggest of these assumptions being that, if you are fly then you probably only deal with baller style dudes or athletes.

Why do they assume this? Because when you are real fly, then you have options. And if you can choose an athlete or someone with cash, then why not. And it is usually these types that, due to their social experience, have the confidence to approach you.

58. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

what about when you’re fly but hate the “baller” type? what about when you’re fly but like a man with substance? what about when you’re fly and you’re filled with lots of substance yourself??? why do some brotas think that type of woman doesn’t exist???

men should be more confident, especially the nice ones…because my fly, fine ass, loves me a humble brotha…and i love a humble brotha that loves a fine, fly ass, humble sista…
and yes, you can be humble, and know you’re fine as fuck…i believe everybody should feel that way about themselves, and if they don’t they should just, well, shoot themselves…

59. DCI74 wrote:

“what about when you’re fly but hate the “baller” type? what about when you’re fly but like a man with substance? what about when you’re fly and you’re filled with lots of substance yourself??? why do some brotas think that type of woman doesn’t exist???”

If she’s out there wyltk, please send her my way because we gotta meet!

60. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

LOL DC don’t play stupid…i’m moving to NY in a few weeks…we can meet then

61. Piscean Princess wrote:

DC, she most certainly does exist. Me & Sammy B are unavailable for the “meet & greet”….I can’t speak for Chgo, ting, Hal, etc. and WYLTK seems more than willing to step up to the plate. You’ve got your own little fly & full of substance dating pool right here at the ‘Shop!

62. anita wrote:

what is this… love connection? lol

63. anita wrote:

wait… did i just show my age there? yup

64. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

PP i don’t know why i’m feeding…DC just like for us to fight over him….punk

65. Logic wrote:

“men should be more confident, especially the nice ones…because my fly, fine ass, loves me a humble brotha…and i love a humble brotha that loves a fine, fly ass, humble sista…”

How they supposed to know that?

66. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

i approach nice men all the time, some just don’t know how to hang…or they start instantly getting suspicious of me…like asking weird questions etc…men assume i have all these men in my back pocket, but i’m a loner like a muthafucka…and i guess because of my out going personality, they assume every dude can get my attention which is untrue….they just need to be confident with every woman they encounter, the good, the bad, and the indifferent….i guess.

seriously i don’t know how they’re suppose to know that….i guess real recognize real…yeah, i’mma stick to that

67. Miss Martin wrote:

I can love this country again–finally! I love Michelle SOOOO MUCH! I love the way Barack looks at her, I just love the way….MAY THE ANCESTOR REVEL IN THIS MOMENT—YALL EARNED IT
`ASHE~

68. Logic wrote:

Black Love!!

69. DCI74 wrote:

Lol yeah you found me out wyltk, I’m so interested in an
e-catfight. But seriously seeing the Obamas last night gives me more hope for black relationships where you can have two strong, intelligent, supportive individuals on the same page.

70. ChgoSista wrote:

The Obamas’ love reminds me of when you’re in that KNEE-DEEP puppy love…

Barack and Michelle, after talking on the phone a night after a long day of campaigning:

BO: “OK, baby gotta go. Hang up.”
MO: “No, YOU hang up.”
BO: ((giggles)) “Nooo, YOU hang up!”
MO: “OK, we’ll hang up at the same time–1, 2, 3…”

LOL LOL!!!

71. natural nubian wrote:

hahahahaha, yall are crackin’ me up here at work!
i feel you on the fly w/substance tip wyltk. very difficult to find. and even if you do find it, the man/woman probably has baggage enough for a 747 aircraft. seeing the obama’s, especially michelle, on such a platform not only reaffirms that black love is not something only in the movies, but also that as a black woman that is educated & sophisticated i don’t have to lower my standards but will find a guy who is also on the same level as i am, and we’ll need each other equally for support.

72. Blaxx wrote:

The worst thing a man can do is assume that just because a woman is fly, she is conceited, stuck up and only interested in “ballers” as you guys would put it. No need to kill your own confidence, just step to her because if you’re respectful and genuine, the worst thing she can say to you is “Sorry, I’m not interested”

73. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

Amen Blaxx, Amen….cuz i love when guys assume that about me…and then i turn out to be this uber tomboy on their asses, or when they find out all my interests…that shit is classic.

never judge a book by it’s cover is the moral of this story

btw- chgosista, your comment 67 was funny as hell!

74. MrsPickron wrote:

The example they display of their bond, love & respect for one another is priceless. I love it! Now that he will be President, maybe just maybe more men would look at him & learn how to be an excellent man to their woman, an excellent hushand to their wife.

Obama will get on the men every chance he can.

75. Immaculent wrote:

Bout t0 go dumb in the club!!!!! Lol

76. Clifton Harrison wrote:

well…lets not get carried away over here. Sometimes the book is worst than the cover. You do have your women out there who are looking for that NFL/NBA baller, and anything else is pathetic..

but i agree, don’t assume things about people..

77. lovely19 wrote:

AWW. I hearts this picture.

i wanna be loved like that.

78. Terrence wrote:

Have to admit great picture…great expression of black love…I really look forward to Michelle Obama being a first lady in the white house…

79. ChgoSista wrote:

Original/Old school shop regulars, please confirm:

Who was the first woman to OUTWARDLY profess her cyber-love for DC? Cuz I have done so on more than one occasion, now all these bandwagon heffas have jumped in! LOL!!!

80. DCI74 wrote:

Lol @ Chgo, wow you’re funny “bandwagon heffas” hahahaha

81. natural nubian wrote:

WHOA WHOA WHOA!! chgo don’t start sumthin’ u can’t finish now! granted i haven’t “outwardly professed” but i think i speak for many of us that we all have a lil kindergarten cyber crush on DC. (Blaxx, u taken boo, sorry). so i’m not sure which heffas u referrin’ to, but i been peeped his comment swagger from back in the day.

82. Ann wrote:

DC big on the internet!!!!

83. gigi wrote:

DC ain’t all that! LOL

84. ChgoSista wrote:

Well, I DID ‘love’ Blaxx, but here a couple of things that made me fall OUT of love w/him:

1. Two words: “Love Jones.” LOL…
2. He’s not even 25 y.o. yet, is he? I would feel like, if I were in his presence, he’d call me “Ma’am” or some shit! AAAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA…

I “cain’t” have that!!!

Mr. DeeTroit fell out of cyberlove with me. Don’t know what I could’ve done to make him do that–is it bcuz I have overtly flirted with DC?

85. gigi wrote:

Couldn’t resist…just joking. I don’t want to be pulled into this fight. Besides, I don’t have my Vaseline and I don’t feel like taking off my earrings. LMAO

86. Tanya wrote:

Chgo,

Calm all that down! OK! DC wants a real woman! (hey boo!!! )

natural nubian,

DC does have “comment swagger”! But it’s NOT for you! He does what he does to make ME smile! Thank you very much!

87. Ann wrote:

@tanya: didnt DC tell you to “go play in traffic” one time…lol….wow…flirting at its best…. damn DC you the man at the barbershop….

88. Tanya wrote:

Ann,

That’s how we do! “Go play in traffic” is code for…well…let’s just keep the conversation PG ok!

He knows I got what he wants!

89. Ann wrote:

lol@ tanya….

90. ChgoSista wrote:

Tanya, you are lucky Dr. Marc doesn’t have picture-posting capability here; cuz I would post a pic of me and “the girls” that would shut this shit down…

What????!!!

YOUR move, Tanya!!!

91. Tanya wrote:

LMAO!!!

92. Tanya wrote:

Chgo,

If DC saw me, you would NEVER see him in the ‘Shop again! He would be spending ALLL of his time catering to ME!!!

And my “girls” get it done too!

93. ChgoSista wrote:

He CAN’T want you, Tanya–cuz whenever y’all would have a conversation, you would “diatribe” his ass to death!!!

HAHAHHAAAAAAAAAAAAA….

94. Tanya wrote:

LMAO!!!

Don’t worry, I will turn DC “Red”! He’ll join my team and live the happiest life ever! No argument!

95. gigi wrote:

Ladies,

While ya’ll fightning in here…DC trying to come on to Anne in the other post. HMMMMMMMMMMM

96. ChgoSista wrote:

GiGi–WHICH post??

97. gigi wrote:

Lol I like your style Ann

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98. gigi wrote:

Video of the Day – Nader Clip

99. DCI74 wrote:

That comment should’ve posted much earlier, what’s the problem Marc?? I was referring to Ann’s Ice Cube comment.

I swear ya’ll got me cracking up in my office for real. If nothing else it’s refreshing to know there are still some intelligent women around. Tanya you are hilarious, gonna turn me Red lol???

100. natural nubian wrote:

i can’t begin to comment. this is how yall do when i get up to get some lunch. DC, baby, just ignore them. You and I already know what’s up. Tanya & Chgo, get in line (but don’t hold your breath).

101. ChgoSista wrote:

natural nubian, “real bad [girls] move in silence…”

Ain’t that right, DC….

102. Tanya wrote:

Sidebar: I just noticed that is says “London’s Quality Newspaper” at the top of this pic! They are racist as all hell over there. They would piss themselves if a black tried to run for Prime-Minister.

The sentiments of the editorial board was probably, “Breaking News!!! Look what the dumb Americans did. Never gonna happen here.”

103. Piscean Princess wrote:

Technically, I was one of the very first to have a thing going with DC, waaaaaaay back in the day. It was extremely brief and we were never into the overt ePDA that has run rampant ’round here for the last few years.

Honestly, I wasn’t really tracking who jumped on my leftovers after that.

Ok, carry on….

104. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

HOLD UP, HOLD UP, HOLD UP!!! “band wagon heffas?!!”

we all know DC and i have the aquarian connection!
i ain’t never heard of none of y’all lovin’ up my DC, till i came through the door….stop playin’ DC and come on home to mama…those drapes need fixin’…and you know what comes next

i’m tellin’ you, once you get the spice…it’s CURTAINS!

no pun intended….SIKE!

105. MrsPickron wrote:

WoW, you ladies are funny. I enjoyed reading the comments.

Dang DC, you’ve got power & swagger in the shop.

I’ve noticed it too but I’m married so I’m not part of the fight!

But carry on Ladies, I love it!

106. DCI74 wrote:

Lol @ wyltk and the rest of the Shop ladies. This thread went rogue just like Sarah Palin lol. It’s ironic because I was just talking to a friend tonight about my issues with being single.

107. Ann wrote:

After yesterday DC, there is no reason for you to be single…I think your options are looking real good….

108. Ann wrote:

oh yeah BTW DC you know I was rocking “doing dumb shit”…that was my fav behind “true to the game” and “US”…

109. ChgoSista wrote:

DC, u can’t leave us hangin’ like that! What issues are you having with your singleness?

110. DCI74 wrote:

Ann after your post I had to dig that cd out when I got home and it felt good blasting “US.”

Well I’m an Aquarian so I’m very independent and highly ambitious and some women have a problem with that because they’re used to a guy that wants to be all up underneath them 24/7 and I’m not him. My quality time away adds more quality to the time we spend together is my motto. Beyond that sometimes I meet women I have great chemistry with but are incompatible with or vice versa, I don’t think wanting both is too much to ask for.

111. Swiss wrote:

This is so hilarious. Dr. Hill should start Barbershop Bachelor – Will you accept this keyboard? LMBO

112. ChgoSista wrote:

Swiss, what’s so hilarious? ((question marks dancing over my head))

113. ChgoSista wrote:

So DC, you’re challenged with the thin line between handling your business and giving/showing a lady attention and interest?

114. Swiss wrote:

What’s hilarious is you ladies “blog fighting” over DC and your respective comments – “band wagon heffas” etc

115. ChgoSista wrote:

Swiss, do you realize we’re just having fun here?

116. Swiss wrote:

Take a chill pill Chgo. I DO realize that you’re just having fun. That’s why it’s so funny! Other have posted to that effect eg #101.

117. ChgoSista wrote:

Swiss, I’m cooler than a fan, bruh–kinda hard to tell that through a computer screen, though.

118. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

See DC, that’s what i’m talking about…”the aqaurian connection”…see, we both understand the need for freedom, and we both understand that, when we’re apart it just makes us hornier…see some people can’t understand the detached aloof thing we’ve got going on…but WE get it perfectly

and we can’t stand “predictable”, as a matter of fact we HATE it…with me, you never know what you’re going to get…

so come on home to mama DC, come on home…you know you want to.
hehehehehe

119. DCI74 wrote:

Lol @ wyltk, you hit the nail on the head perfectly. I figured you would easily get it. See Chgo it’s not about about finding balance between handling business and quality relationship time its more about being able to retain my time for self that like wyltk stated may come across as me being aloof. But without that alone time I’m incomplete, time away makes the time together I think better.

120. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

yes we NEED our “me time”..without it we’ll go nuts…

it’s alot going on in these minds of ours…we must have that solitude from time to time..

too much time with a person is draining…no matter how much you love them…but have no fear, because we’re very faithful people…to me it get no better than that!

***waiting on DC to come home…***

121. ChgoSista wrote:

(((DEFEATED ONCE AGAIN. STORY OF MY LIFE))

122. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

don’t worry chgosista, i know it’s a shortage of GOOD men….i’m willing to share…you can have him on tuesdays.

123. Ann wrote:

ahhh…lol…I dont think ChgoSista wants to be a part of a concubine…lol…(i crack myself up)…..

124. DCI74 wrote:

Lol whoa now with the insane arrangements. I’m a one-woman man, got too much other stuff going on to pay attention to more than one woman plus Tuesdays is poker night with my boys lol.

125. natural nubian wrote:

hahahahahaha. DC i don’t share baby. i almost cut a chic in pre-k for trying to get my crayolas! So I’m thinking you and i are most compatible. and i have no problem letting you go be with your thoughts. just as long as you know who you coming back home to

126. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

see i was just being nice…gimme my damn DC back!

**bringing out cat claws**
ROOOOOOAAARRRRRR GGGGRRRRRRR ROOOOOOAAARRRR!!!!!!!!!!

i never said what kind of cat

127. ChgoSista wrote:

Why, DC, why–is it because she’s younger?

One of my older male cousins broke it down to me like this–he said:

“See, cuz, you’re at the ‘funny’ age; you’re TOO OLD for the cats who like younger broads [sic], and you’re too mature for those 20-something old cats.”

128. DCI74 wrote:

I don’t know Chgo but I do know I’m at a funny age too. Women in their 20s find me attractive as do women in my age range (early 30s) and older so even with a wide range of options based on age I’m still single lol.

129. Tanya wrote:

“Well I’m an Aquarian so I’m very independent and highly ambitious and some women have a problem with that..” -DC

Huh? What woman in her right mind would have a problem with that?!?!?!

I told you before you seem like a good catch! You need a good woman. GOD is preparing her for you. Just wait, she’ll come to you soon, and she’ll be perfect!

130. ChgoSista wrote:

DC, let me ask this: Do you have a “type”? (Do you subconsciously or consciously pick the same type of woman–whether it be via physicality or whatever?)

131. DCI74 wrote:

No Chgo I don’t have a set type. Admittedly I went through my physically superficial stage when I was younger but that changed as I got older. The women I’ve dated didn’t all share the same personality traits either but the core ones that catch my senses (ambition, sense of humor, family oriented, passionate, etc.) were all there.

Tanya I would hope she embraces her perfect imperfections versus trying to achieve that which doesn’t exist. I know I’m imperfect so it would be foolish of me to seek qualities I don’t possess at all and never will in a woman.

132. ChgoSista wrote:

I don’t have a “type” either; rather, I have “those few things” that I just CANNOT deal with.

133. ChgoSista wrote:

OK, well, I DO need him to be taller than I am; at only 5′5″, I am amazed at how hard that is sometimes…

134. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

lol chgosista..i’m 5′2 and it’s sometimes hard to find one taller than me i feel your pain girl.

DC i’m not even going to say that i’m ALL of thee above…i’m just simply not going to

do di do di do (twiddling thumbs)

hehehehehe

135. ChgoSista wrote:

DC, I cook! That’s certainly some shit u don’t get everyday! Ha! How ’bout dat?

YOUR MOVE, WYLTK!!!

136. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

i cook NAKED…

your go

137. ChgoSista wrote:

GOTDAMN U WYLTK! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!

138. natural nubian wrote:

sorry chgo, wyltk won that round.

139. wouldn't you like to know? wrote:

140. DCI74 wrote:

What the hell?? Cooking naked? lol wow I leave for a bit and come back this

141. Ced wrote:

Ever seen a 6′4″ 265 pound African American man cry?
Let there be another November 4th.